This book is a Unity classic and is filled with ideas that form the Unity understanding of the world and how to be spiritually awake, unfolding and fulfilled. Since this book study is short for all the wisdom within this book, we will be focusing on a few chapters. Please read the whole book. But for sake of having everyone involved, this study guide has quotations from the book to prompt discussion.
Bill Gernon – In Person Bill’s Home in Cary 7:00 pm Meet 2nd & 4th Weeks Continue meeting after book study Go to Register for Bill Gernon Group
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Belonging is our theme for the year. Our book study this winter will incorporate texts and videos that explore this basic human need. Of course, we will be inviting everyone to be part of a small group where ideas can be discussed, and friendships built. If you are already part of an ongoing group, you know how fun and engaging the conversations can be, and how the ideas become real as we share our experiences.
Look for future details about times and texts. Let’s end the isolation, and deepen in wisdom with friends new and old. You belong in a small group!
To help you get the most out of the lessons from this series, we’ve prepared a study guide that you can use as your view/listen to this series.
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Book Study Series: Living Untethered: Beyond the Human Predicament
Now more than ever, we’re all looking to feel more joy, happiness, and deeper meaning in our lives. But are we looking in all the wrong places? When our sense of wholeness depends on things or people outside ourselves—whether it’s a coveted job, a new house, a lavish vacation, or even a new relationship—sooner or later we’re bound to feel unsatisfied. That’s why we must look inside for real freedom, love, and inspiration. But how do we embark on this inner journey?
Discover a deeper understanding of where your thoughts and emotions come from, and how they affect your natural energy flow. The purpose of this series is to get us to relax internally so that we can accept the world as it is, and not live in resistance thereby connecting with the higher aspects of ourselves. The totality of who we are, in particular with the witness State, the one that is always aware and has been with you your whole life even as your body changes. That one, the inner self, with the capital S self.
The goal of this process in keeping one’s awareness clear enough by not clinging or avoiding things, you begin to deepen into that experience and find happiness, bliss, and contentment.
To help you get the most out of the lessons from this series, we’ve prepared a study guide that you can use as your view/listen to this series.
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In Unity we emphasize on denying what is not true and affirming what is. Meditation and silence, letting go and letting God and gratitude are all part of the Unity model of spiritual practice. Nonetheless when we are faced with a major challenge, our old way of doing prayer kicks in. To many of us, this way consists of beseeching and persuading an external God. This idea of praying to an old man up in the skies, one that blesses but also punishes, is truly ingrained in the collective consciousness of many of us.
Following, we are presenting a 7-step prayer that integrates all the Unity teachings not only to support you in attracting the best of a situation but also in modifying that old belief of what prayer is… and thus, truly impact one’s consciousness by opening it up allowing Spirit to do what it does which is to bless, heal and prosper.
On January 23, 2022 Rev Ana offered a powerful lesson in which she further explains this prayer technology to truly support our prayer practice by turning it into a practice for peace as the lesson was titled.
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Unity’s core belief and mission statement talks about “awakening to our Divine nature through…personal transformation”. Part of this Awakening process is understanding that there are teachings we have inherited through our society that are not in alignment with who we really are. Studying the book Caste by Isabel Wilkerson opens us up to a new realization that we have been part of a deep rooted system that unjustly suppresses some people and lifts up others.
This caste system has become second nature to us and as we learn the depth of the horror and injustice of it, we come to realize there is a lot of work to be done to correct it. It will take a collective effort and it won’t happen overnight.
What can we do to help the process?
Education is fundamental. It’s a shameful history but we must not let the emotion stop us in our tracks. It’s important to learn about this history and how it still lives on today and then to turn that knowledge and emotion into action.
See no one as a stranger. When we listen to the stories of others, we relate to them as humans who carry hurt and love their families just like we do. We are all connected by our similar emotions and desires.
Everything is a call for love. If someone is acting in an unpleasant way, beneath it all is an unhealed wound and a desire for acceptance and love. Every time we see beyond the unpleasant action to the hurting soul and extend love and forgiveness, it moves us further along the path to healing. Jesus taught us to love our enemies. Acting on this example of unconditional love benefits the perceived enemy as well as the one extending love. We realize there is an unlimited amount of love to give and express.
Love yourself first. We cannot give what we don’t have. When we care for ourselves and show ourselves honor, respect, and love, we then have more capacity to extend those gifts to others. One way to care for ourselves is to feel our emotions – without the story that brought that emotion. Suppressing emotions builds up tension within us that may explode onto someone else. Sit with the uncomfortable feeling without telling the story behind it and it will disperse. Letting go of fear and negative emotions opens us up to choose love as our primary force.
The Declaration of Independence states that all men are created equal. This truth was not available for everyone when it was written, but over time we are getting closer and closer to allowing all people to feel and experience that equality.
We have the awareness and ability to facilitate change within ourselves and in our world. With our hearts open, there is room for hope. Let there be peace on Earth and let it begin with me.
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It’s hard to fathom that the Nazis looked to the United States for direction and inspiration when moving quickly to implement plans for racial separation and purity.
America has a reputation for being a land of opportunity, where dreams come true, and freedom rings. As we learn more about the backbone of how our society was built, it was literally on the backs of suppressed people who were tortured and murdered to grow and uphold the upper caste. It’s disturbing and embarrassing to think of America as being a motivator for Nazi Germany. The Declaration of Independence states that all men are created equal with unalienable rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. There is a huge contradiction between what the document states and the reality of what people of the lower castes have experienced. Native Americans have been massacred. Chinese were discriminated against with the passing of the Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882, the first immigration law that excluded an entire ethnic group. Irish Americans were oppressed and persecuted. African Americans were enslaved, abused, and slaughtered. Other groups such as Middle Easterners, Hindu, East Indians, and Japanese have also been oppressed.
The trajectory of this nation is slowly moving in the right direction but our past is more sinister than most of us realized. Our caste system is systemic within our institutions and creates a deep economic disparity between white Americans and other groups that extends for generations. It will take many more generations before suppressed groups can enjoy equal opportunities to acquire wealth, good health insurance, safe neighborhoods, and have equal opportunities for higher education, career placement, and job security.
Unity’s second principle states that each person is a unique expression of God with sacred worth and goodness. We cannot fully awaken to our Divine Nature individually until we take steps to make comprehensive institutional changes in our society. Our role right now is to actively take part in the transformation of our society to bring about these changes to level the playing field for all Americans.
See the problem – recognize that it exists.
Sit with the pain – endure the pain and loss that comes from it.
Heal – once the problem and pain is acknowledged, healing can begin.
Healing includes a shift in consciousness as well as action. First, we must look within ourselves and find where we are upholding and keeping the caste system and racism alive. How can I educate myself about the suffering of others? What thoughts and feelings do I have about certain groups? What assumptions am I making? And then make a decision to divert those thoughts and feelings into more accurate ones, not influenced by what society teaches us. As our thoughts change, our actions will change. We will be more likely to befriend someone that is not like us, give them a hand up, encourage them, vote for them, hire them. Collective action over time bridges the divide.
Progress doesn’t happen in a straight line, but in stair steps. Our willingness to be courageous in our exploration of understanding each other, having compassion for each other, and feeling the pain of others, opens our hearts and allows us to see through the Christ perspective. When we embrace and uplift others, we ourselves are uplifted, and all people move towards a more equitable, peaceful, and happy existence.
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Today we continue our Fall book study with the second of four video podcast episodes where Rev. Neusom and Rev. Ana will be discussing the book “Caste” by Isabel Wilkerson.
If you haven’t seen our week 1 episode, you can tune in here. We’ve also prepared a study guide that you can download here. Don’t forget to join us next Thursday for the Virtual Book Study group with Rev. Neusom Holmes.
Caste – The Origin of Our Discontent: Week Two
Let’s start with a definition of Caste. It is a fixed ranking of human value to pursue supremacy of one group against the inferiority or presumed inferiority of other groups on the basis of ancestry and traits, neutral in the abstract, but with meaning in a hierarchy favoring the dominant caste.
Caste is about power. The system stigmatizes those deemed inferior to justify the dehumanization necessary to keep the lowest ranked people at the bottom and rationalizes the enforcement of the caste system.
Race in the United States is the visible agent of the unseen force of caste. Caste is the bones and race is the skin. Physical traits have been given meaning and judgements are made based solely on them. Caste is the powerful infrastructure that holds each group in its place. What lies beneath each label of race is centuries of assigning assumptions and values to physical features in a structure of human hierarchy.
It’s tricky because people of the highest caste, white people in America, can say “I don’t see race” or “I’m not racist” but still enjoy the privileges of the caste system. The term Racism puts the emphasis on our emotional state but Caste tells the larger story of the systemic privilege for those of the higher caste. Privileges of the upper caste include physical safety, learning opportunities, job opportunities, economic opportunities, positive assumptions being made about their character, and countless others.
The caste system dominates our overall experience in life, even though personal relationships don’t always follow the caste system.
There are several ideals that have upheld this caste system in America:
Divine will and the natural order – the Bible was used to justify originating the caste system.
Not allowing people of different castes to intermarry or have relationships – laws were on the books in the U.S. against interracial marriage until 1967.
Purity and pollution – the upper caste is pure and the lower caste is polluted. They do not not shake hands, swim in the same pool, or drink from the same water fountain.
In our current time in history, videos are exposing the dominance and terrorization inherent in the caste system whether it be police shootings of unarmed black men or a woman in Central Park terrified of a black man bird watching.
We can share the same last name, same level of education, same place of birth, same religious upbringing, and still identify as a different caste by the visual characteristic of skin color and physical traits.
In Unity, we like to say that we have access to Divine Mind, but we also have access to the Collective Unconscious. Sometimes that collective unconscious provides wisdom and sometimes it provides harmful attitudes and emotions. Once a caste system has been held in place for a long time, it begins to bubble up unconsciously.
It will take enormous effort to transform ourselves and break this unconscionable cycle of caste in America. We can do our part by examining ourselves, our beliefs and actions, and making a conscious effort to transform them to be more equitable. But it will take some time to transform the collective unconscious.
In the words of Marianne Williamson, “May judgement of others, bigotry, racism, and intolerance be washed clean from our hearts. May God’s unconditional love and acceptance allow us to accept everybody. May our lives be turned into instruments of resurrection that the sins of our fathers might be reversed through us”.
Can’t watch the video but want to listen in? Tune in to the audio version of today’s dialogue.
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Today we are starting our Fall book study with the first of four video podcast episodes where Rev. Neusom and Rev. Ana will be discussing the book “Caste” by Isabel Wilkerson.
To get you started, download your book study guide, and tune in to today’s dialogue in video format (shown above) or audio format (below at the end of this post). Download your Study Guide Here
The death of George Floyd, and the many others before and after him, has uncovered for a lot of us what we knew existed, but didn’t understand the scope or depth of. There is a segment of our population that for over four hundred years has gone through, and continues to go through, unfair and unprovoked deprivation of their rights.
People are treated differently than others in America because of the caste system in our country. This caste system, first by law and now by social custom, places people of African descent among the lowest caste, not much different from the caste system in India where the Dalits are of the lowest caste.
In the movie The Matrix, artificial intelligence takes over humanity with a program called the matrix and people didn’t even realize they were trapped. One character started to wake up to the idea that his reality wasn’t actually reality. He was courageous enough to take the red pill in order to wake up to the truth of life, as unpleasant as it may be. This is somewhat like Unity’s idea of waking up to a reality other than what we may have been taught or experienced. And not so different than us choosing to wake up and acknowledge the complexity of the program American has been running on for centuries.
The word “racism” has a lot of shame associated with it which can sometimes lead us to not want to have a conversation about it, much less concede to its current prevalence. The book Caste explains America’s system in terms of a hierarchy rather than race which allows a bit of room for examination. It educates us without invoking shame and embarrassment by showing us that this system has groomed us to believe in the caste structure. It’s almost understandable that we would each take our place within it without question.
But with our eyes open to seeing this system’s cruel and discriminatory nature, we can choose to change our thoughts and behaviors to help raise up all people to be treated with the worth and dignity they deserve. We can ask ourselves “What beliefs do I hold that I have not seen before and are ready to be dissolved?”. We hope to gain a deeper understanding of what others experience, have compassion for them, and to be willing to step up and be their companion and ally.
For members of the highest caste, the ego takes hold and wants to keep the caste system in place because it affords power, money, status, and privileges. Unity’s second principle says that as humans, we have the divine essence of God within us. Giving in to our ego rather than honoring this divinity within others leads us away from Truth.
We are all divine beings, one with the Presence and with each other, and we have the ability to progress in our consciousness, raise our vibration, and create a better and more equitable world for us all.
Join us next Friday as we delve deeper into Caste – The Origins of Our Discontents.
Can’t watch the video but want to listen in? Tune in to the audio version of today’s dialogue.
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Earlier this Summer, Rev. Neusom and Rev. Ana had the opportunity to dialogue with several members of the Unity Women of Color group and our Music Director, Tim Smith on their experience and views concerning race relations in America. We’ve compiled these conversations (available on our YouTube channel) and are including some additional resources to compliment these discussions.
As we prepare for our upcoming book study, we are sharing some educational resources to learn more about ways in which we can take stand and shift our thoughts into a more inclusive, accepting and united community.
A CONVERSATION WITH MEMBERS OF UNITY WOMEN OF COLOR – PART 1 AND 2
A CONVERSATION WITH TONYA & TAYLOR DEBNAM – PART 1 AND 2
A CONVERSATION WITH TIM SMITH
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